Dear Me (aged 13),
You will soon feel like you just want to give up, but it gets better trust me.
There will be times that you will feel like you want to completly give up on life, but you don't need to because there is light at the other end. All you need todo is hold you head up high and say to yourself "I CAN DO THIS NO MATTER WHAT"
You might not know this right now, but you are stronger than you think. You have more will power than anyone else around you, don't forget that.
The girls that are with you right now, they aren't your friends. You need to understand that they may try to hurt you emotionally nearly everyday during you time at school and when you go home you will feel helpless, but you are so much more stronger than you think. As hard as it sounds take in what they are saying to you. You won't think that it is the best thing todo at the time and it will be hard, but all that pain and sadness will help you with everything else later on. It will help you to become more confident and not worry about what people think of you all the time and learn that it's ok to be yourself and that you don't have to be someone that you're not just to make friends.
When you go home by the way and see Mom, she's going to be there with you through everything. Oh and when she texts you every lunchtime, she doesn't stop texting you everyday. It does though start to feel more like a comfort thing later on. It's nice just to see that she is thinking about you and you know that she will always be there for you no matter what. She will kinda be like your rock through everything over the next few years. Nan has been through it all as well so she will always give you the odd piece of advice here and there.
Just think that if you can push through these next few years and get to your exams and pass them, then you can say to yourself "I did it, I got through these last few years pushing myself to make sure I get the best end results I can. I have shown them that they can't stop me from working hard and trying to make a difference in my life."
God will soon be a massive part of your life so don't be afraid to put your heart and soul into praying for everything to be better because he's always going to be there with you through all the tough times, you will soon find out what I mean by that.
Remember this. Friends will come and go throughout your life, but your family will always be there no matter what happens.
Lots and lots of love always,
Me (aged 18) xoxox
You will soon feel like you just want to give up, but it gets better trust me.
There will be times that you will feel like you want to completly give up on life, but you don't need to because there is light at the other end. All you need todo is hold you head up high and say to yourself "I CAN DO THIS NO MATTER WHAT"
You might not know this right now, but you are stronger than you think. You have more will power than anyone else around you, don't forget that.
The girls that are with you right now, they aren't your friends. You need to understand that they may try to hurt you emotionally nearly everyday during you time at school and when you go home you will feel helpless, but you are so much more stronger than you think. As hard as it sounds take in what they are saying to you. You won't think that it is the best thing todo at the time and it will be hard, but all that pain and sadness will help you with everything else later on. It will help you to become more confident and not worry about what people think of you all the time and learn that it's ok to be yourself and that you don't have to be someone that you're not just to make friends.
When you go home by the way and see Mom, she's going to be there with you through everything. Oh and when she texts you every lunchtime, she doesn't stop texting you everyday. It does though start to feel more like a comfort thing later on. It's nice just to see that she is thinking about you and you know that she will always be there for you no matter what. She will kinda be like your rock through everything over the next few years. Nan has been through it all as well so she will always give you the odd piece of advice here and there.
Just think that if you can push through these next few years and get to your exams and pass them, then you can say to yourself "I did it, I got through these last few years pushing myself to make sure I get the best end results I can. I have shown them that they can't stop me from working hard and trying to make a difference in my life."
God will soon be a massive part of your life so don't be afraid to put your heart and soul into praying for everything to be better because he's always going to be there with you through all the tough times, you will soon find out what I mean by that.
Remember this. Friends will come and go throughout your life, but your family will always be there no matter what happens.
Lots and lots of love always,
Me (aged 18) xoxox
I really love this idea, such an inspirational post!
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This is a lovely comment thank- you very much xoxox
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